When you break up with narcissist

Joplin MO

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Do they look for a replacement right away? No. When a narcissist breaks it off with a significant other they don't immediately try to find a new target. Why? If the Narcissist breaks off the relationship with a significant other, they don't immediately try to find a new target because they have already secured your replacement. Narcissists jump from relationship to relationship because Narcissists need constant fuel in order to survive and therefore if they have ended a relationship with a significant other (providing that it was the narcissist that ended things) will already be in a relationship with someone else. Narcissists start looking for your replacement when they start devaluing you, and if they have discarded you? They will have already found their next victim because Narcissists can't stand the idea of being alone, and they would rarely discard an individual, if they haven't already groomed the “new supply". So while you're desperately trying to “make things work" with the Narcissist, he/she/they were well into the “love-bombing” phase with your replacement. The Narcissist will have been cheating on you with this person, long before your final discard and they justify the cheating as you drove them to do it. Your ability to fuel the Narcissist is no longer enough as over time like with any relationship that “new, madly in love, when your new partner can do no wrong slowly fades over time.