Whispering into existence

Philadelphia PA

Description

I write from my bed under my down comforter with air on and the low hum of the fan. It’s been a year and a half since my breakup and I think it’s time I got back out there. About me: I’m a 6’ 170lb man approaching 40. Although everyone I meet thinks I’m 25. I guess not drinking and no kids will do that. I own my own business that keeps me busy and happy. During the busy season all I can muster is a few bike rides a week for myself. During the slow months I travel to tropical climates and have more time to go to the gym. Yes I’m fit and am a heavy lifter. I’m a particular person and know it. For this reason and more I haven’t been in a rush to meet someone because most people I placate, but don’t like. I live alone but would like to slowly start seeing the right person. The right person is a tall thin woman that has their own life but too would like to start seeing the right guy. You’re likely a professional that may be goal oriented but maybe not. You’re definitely gregarious and more than fine on your own. You plan and don’t fly by the seat of your pants most times, but certainly can. You too live alone and have no kids. We’re close in age (getting each other jokes & references is important). I know I could do online dating and not be here, of all places, but online dating is filled with anxiety and unnaturalness that I’d rather avoid. I’m pretty sure I won’t meet a promising person here and this is mostly catharsis but a journey of a thousand miles starts with the first step. I hope my person is out there and we meet sooner than later.