Why is it so hard for a decent man to find a decent woman?

Oceanside CA

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This is my experience and I hear this from other men as well. They're either crazy, broke, or both, and/ or so damaged I'd instead be run over by a freight - train than spend 5 minutes with them. Why must it be so complicated to find a normal and decent woman? I am not even picky in the looks department any longer; a 5/10 is now acceptable whereas, in the past, it had to be at least an 8/10. I would even take a fat 4/10 if she at least knew how to cook well and had fresh breath.