You don't know what you've got...

Columbus OH

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Till it's gone. Just putting this out there for the universe. I ruined my first marriage. Guess I was immature, ignorant, and didn't realize how much he loved and took care of me. Now that he's gone I'm afraid I'll never find another man like him. I find myself stuck in a marriage that I don't want. Taking care of another women's children. A lifestyle that I never would have chosen for myself. He is a good man, but I still find myself longing for what I once had. My first husband will surely never have me back, pretty sure that bridge has burnt. If only we could go back and do things differently. We can't. My advice to anyone reading this... To hell with everyone else's grass.. it only looks greener because you're looking at it from a distance. Take care of your own grass. Your spouse is your teammate not your competition. The people who give you attention away from home, just want to get with you. They aren't interested in taking care of you. Take it from someone who has had it, lost it, learned from it, and now regrets it. Take care of the ones who take care of you. Do unto others.... before you no longer have the opportunity to do so.