Should I help, again?

Lakewood OH

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A 22-year-old veteran was looking for a room, Detroit Shoreway area, I had a room, he moved in, the first weekend, he got drunk, ok, 22 year old vets drink, I drink beer too. But he was a different person, the next day, he was ok, this went on for 15 years. off and on, He complained about everything, my asking him to help clean, cut the grass, shovel the snow. don't bring girls for overnight fun, but he did anyway, I called the cops, my house. I have provided for him, a safe home, plenty of room, everything you need to live. parking, but when he gets drunk, he is verbally abusive, threating, sloppy, never cleaned the toilet, sometimes no rent, bitching and complaining, he knows I'm gay, but were not together, ever, He moved in and out, here, there, everywhere, once while he was out, he had a child, that relationship didn't work out, he moved back in with me, 9 years later, in and out of court fighting with the mother of his child, this went on for 9 years, $$$$, he still can't see his son, then he stated a landscaping business, $100,000. worth of trucks equipment, everything, all paid by credit card, he lost it all. NOTHING. now he is being evicted, has to move, has no money no friends, a great big dog, who weighs more than I do, He never picked up the dog poop at the old place, now he wants to move back in with me. WHAT? I have a dog, they do not get along, I have a one bedroom flat, where is he going to sleep? with me? in my bed? on the floor? and what about the big dog? I can't have the dog. what to do? Should I help him again, Now he is 36.