Birthday Bookywook

SE 78th near Stark, Portland OR

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Some things: I have a feeling neither of us meant what we said to each other in January. I understand why you were moved to say these things to me. I think all of those things we said made it very challenging for me to relax when we hung out. It’s not easy for me to have a really real conversation when I’m not relaxed. Also, I drank way too much for those reasons, which def didn’t help. I didn’t mean to judge or offend when discussing your relationship thingies. For the record, I wasn’t the one calling her behavior crazy. I just meant… we all have a type (see YouTube video from school of life “why we pick difficult partners”) and there’s a reason we all have a type. No judgement, it’s just the way we are all wired. I used to be stuck in this cycle, too. Learning to understand this has changed my romantic life in the best way. I want the same for you. I was just trying to help:) We used to talk everyday, especially if things weren’t going well with your other relationship(s), romantic and otherwise. I take it I’m not hearing from you now because things are going well for you in your relationships. I hope that’s the case because I care about your happiness. Your tone with me changed tremendously after your birthday. This was a bummer for me. I was feeling as if I’d done something wrong. And, I know that’s not true. This puts our interactions in a more transactional light & makes the most sense considering how we relate to one another. That’s all for now. I’m going to relegate getting these things out / off my massive chest here in “pdx missed connections” …so apropos.