I accept

Portland OR

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that I now have to deal with the consequences of standing up for myself against you. You can gossip, dehumanize and flag my stupid posts - but I saw you at your core and that didn’t work for me; and in your inability to reflect on whether or not you actually might be the things I was concerned about you make me a monster to feel better about how abusive you are as a partner. Your harassment is only a testament to your limited understanding of yourself and further proves why I decided not to move forward into a relationship with you. That doesn’t mean it was easy, but I have no intention of being controlled - I need love that makes me feel free and safe. You offered neither. If you can’t understand that then you never loved me in a healthy way, and I accept that. You can make me the asshole because that’s all you have left, and that’s really sad for you.