Me in riddle form

Portland OR

Description

I’ve ghosted and been ghosted. From apps to real life, I’m hard to catch like a skittish deer. Easy to spot and hard to find. I self sabotage and I say a lot of stupid things I don’t even mean. I’m even keeled with a seemingly rock hard exterior. I can change my look but my true form remains the same. My nature can be rather aloof or oh-so friendly. Last hint: mommy issues