Help Me Solve a Mystery

San Diego CA

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My wife is a Korean National that I sponsored for her green card, since the pandemic started, on the weekends she would leave at 9:30 am and returning at 9 pm. When I initially inquired where she is spending all this time, she would get very upset and accuse me of being too suspicious. After weeks of asking, she said she’s a cashier. I found that to be odd because most businesses requiring a cashier had been suspended, and I raised this point with her. After weeks of inquiry she changed her whereabouts to volunteering, yet she still refused to tell me the name of the place, she said it was a furnishing refurbished store and they are teaching her the trade, and she wouldn’t tell me the location because she feared I would go there. My first inclination was that she’s having an affair, it’s still a possibility but I’m leaning more to some sort of illegal activities, and now she’s leaving the house 7 days a week and I only get to see her when I leave for work each morning. Out of the blue she asked for a divorce, saying we will still be couple, she just needs government assistance and my income disqualified her. A month after filing, she said we are done, her reason is because I’m too suspicious. I had enough, I told her since we are divorcing and she broke off the relationship, there is nothing left and no reasons to continue to sponsor her. She called that a threat and I called it reality. I said if you can tell me where you are spending 12 hours a day, we have nothing else to talk about. Wherever she is going, she values it’s secrecy more than she values her green card or our relationship. Something seriously is not right. So Community what do you think?