You now live back in Wisconsin

Minneapolis MN

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We’ve known each other about a decade now, and we’ve have had our ups and owns. You’ve done damage that you’ve admitted to. Every time I've tried to maintain a consistent friendship, I feel like it inevitably turned into a power struggle because: You’re (an older) man, we have a peculiar history, and you still have some complex misogyny you’re struggling with, though you'd argue that. You treated me more like an ex that you wish to control, or keep as an option for validation, rather than any genuine friend. Because of this, you triggered a lot of negativity; and you seemed to enjoy it most of the time. I know that you don't have a problem maintaining consistent communication with men, for example. You've lied about things (to try and relate to me?), which deeply hurt and offended, but I feared calling you out. It feels good to finally write this. I value consistency/dependability, you know that- Dropping the ball/creating chaos, seemed to delight you, and it was the only thing you were ever truly consistent about. That’s really all.