Wingman or Wingwoman

El Cajon CA

Description

Hello friends, I am looking for a friend to go out with no sexual relation. I am 46 y.o white brunette, business woman who like to go out. A couple of my friends moved out of town and others got kids and every time I go out by myself I have unpleasant encounters mostly with males. I am not that beautiful as much as charismatic and don't dress provocatively, just decent and conservative due to nature of my business I have to go networking a lot and I usually get a lot of unwanted and inappropriate attention and often I get even attacked if I decline their attention. I have lost my husband and a few family members I went through therapy it has been awhile now and I am back to normal life I like to go out more but get hit by guys a lot and each time I am being nice and carry on then I get dragged into unpleasant conversations and they usually asking a lot of private questions and they assume that I have to answer them. Sometimes I can spot someone targeting me before they talk to me and when they do and I excuse myself and politely decline they still get upset and irritated. I just want to be left alone when I am waiting for a co-worker or clients, or just sit by myself reading or writing. Most of the time I would be happy to talk to someone but the way most males talk is just eahhhh. There just no excuse that can stop them and I am tired of excuses. Would make sense to have someone next to preferable from El Cajon, Santee, La Mesa or Alpine I usually hangout nearby I like going to concerts, stand-up comedies, trivia lounges and bars. Also I attend networking events and hiking groups where many new people join usually for one time and some young guys call me sweetie or cat call. I don't discriminate on skin color, age and your look all I care that you be clean, look presentable and be understanding.