vicki Oxner

Brevard NC

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Sibling abuse includes the physical & psychological.  more often a younger sibling by older sibling.... A 1982 study found that of 60 percent of children who witnessed abuse between their parents later acted out the scene with their siblings. I have done a lot of research on line and talked to a therapist several times. Only since I have been back, closer to home. My my older sister has kicked me, pulled out my hair after washing, I screamed stop and she would not. Driving 3 hours to the hospital asking me to  come outside Grabbed my hand, took a picture of my engagement ring, while driving  home she called the police, still do not understand. There were 2 CNAs outside to see this & cameras on the hospital. Stomping into my bedroom at my moms house, Screaming at me to get up, I could not walk and she stood there, with hands crossed and a stomping foot. Stealing an old check book from me taking $ out of my account  without asking. And there are so many crazy things she has done. She did help me with some medical finance  ie government  funding, she reminds me how hard she has worked to get that for me every time after my coma. I found out I was in a coma for a few days. She has only come to.see me 3 times while in the hospital, first time was to me to sign over power of attorney to her. She has been so ruff and mean screaming at me everytime. She acts like her dad. She denies doing anything wrong. She has called me a liar. And has never apologized for her behavior. One time she was taking me to My house in Durham  to pick up some things and see the puppies before heading back to  Asheville  to put me in another hospital She called the Sheriff  to come  meet before going to the house, the Sheriff said we could  not go.into the house unless Rob was there. I called  Rob to let him know what she did and he said just go in without  her. The Sherriff said since Rob wasn't  there I couldn't  go in even with my neighbor handing me things at the door. Vicki just shuffled it off like it was no big deal. Not my feelings for seeing the dogs or getting my things. I am still in the hospital. I need some good advice/help. I am putting  this out, because I am scared of her manipulation. She has always been  inconsiderate of others, she has Hitlers Birthday. I would greatly appreciate  some good advice until this is done with. She has been abusive to  my Aunt Hazel, putting her on a nursing home and taking all her things.