Adult Child of Narc Mom

Newton MA

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Hi, I have kids who I love and am trying to protect from my Narc mom. She's been away for the winter and keeps mailing them packages. The kids wonder why is she always mailing gifts? Moms comments..you have no friends, bad breath, don't cook, the kid's will grow up hating you, you dress the kids in rags, Why don't you wear makeup? Why aren't they at the same camp all summer?Why don't they take ski lessons? Your child looks like a hobo in that pic.My oldest was taken for a haircut without my permission. She gives the kids an excessive amount of sweets. Hangs up at the least annoyance. I sent a well thought out text last yr. It worked for a short time and went like " For the health and well being of all we're looking for kind, drama free interactions, no yelling/name calling. We can get together at a time thats convenient for all. Anything outside of this isn't going to work for us." I texted this 2 different time. It was mostly ignored. I've been torn down on phone calls/in person,criticizing me, screaming. I've tried boundaries. I'd like to go no contact. The drama keeps me from my kids at times. I've lost sleep over it. Extra stress causes inflamation and worsens pre existing med conditions. I speak from experience. Kids are involved in the decision I have to make re:mom. Thanks for listening. I'm new at voicing this if I don't reply. I appreciate your time.