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Tonight, I had something bad happen. This woman, who loves me...and that I love...somehow ended. She says she is sparing me hurt. She suffers from some issues that she feels she is sparing me from her hurting me. I told her I should be able to decide if I am willing to deal with her pain (which is, to me manageable to handle when she goes through her stuff). She just feels its not in her to want to hurt me. But...I am hurt now. I am totally confused and just stunned. We are just great together. One minute its a normal conversation and the next, the conversation went deep, and then she drops it. Go. This is not a you should run type thing. There is nothing to run from. She has an issue. Big deal. Everything else about her is great and its worth dealing with her bad to keep the good. She thinks shes sparring me...so I am asking...should I be allowed to determine what is best for me and not her or should I accept she think shes going to spare me hurt and watch her go? As I said, we both love each other and neither of us doubt the other of it. We are both right here...we both have valid points and we both dont want to hurt each other. So if its about my feelings...who gets to determine my fate?
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