Brandon:

Minneapolis MN

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It’s been a long time. The last time I saw you doesn’t cross my mind that often. Yes, you were part of a pattern that I struggled with my entire life with men, physically, verbally and psychologically. It wasn’t even the fact that you physically hurt me again that flipped the switch- It was actually the fact that you couldn’t muster up an apology or any remorse, and instead mocked the pain that you caused. Either way, I would’ve left, but that was the end of my respect or any sympathy for you. I’ve been in similar situations with men in the past, but it was like you were just begging me. That was that, and I was gone. I do remember feeling absolutely sure of myself when I left that day, as sad as it was. I don’t owe you anything. You’re right. And I honestly don’t have any desire to speak to you- But you keep posting, and there are people who might know that you’re posting for me. So I’m asking that you stop. At one point, I did blame myself, and I blamed myself in my other relationships too. Because that’s what you guys are trained to get us to do to ease your guilt and your egos. It’s still what society tells us to do, and struggles with. I don’t wish you harm, and I’m glad that you’ve gotten help. It sounds like you were able to quit drinking, and honestly that seemed to be your biggest issue. Take care -TMD